Wear your OWN hair

I have for the last few weeks surfed different blogs, researched different black people's perspective on ideals, and what I've found most interesting is that the old school mentality of "conforming when it comes to hair" is still so alive that it just won't fuggin die......just stoopit..as they would say. So long story short, I proposed a conversation regarding "hair" basically asked if we were "delusional about self-acceptance" ? So we went round and round the usual song and dance, people got all defensive...cause they know they wrong....just wrong....creamy crack addicts I tell ya..... so wear yo' hair.... ....tomorrow if i see a dog with cat furr i'm coming back inside the house and going back to sleep....